People change, but not much...

People change, but not much....

As much as we try, it's sometimes impossible to change what we've always hated about ourselves. Sometimes it's a bad habit, which is easy enough to change I guess. At other times, it's a character flaw, which is really not all that easy to get rid of, despite our best efforts.

So is the maxim really true, that a leopard will never ever change its spots? Is my genetic make-up such that, I will be this way forever and ever, amen?

I will like to think that it's not the case of course. I will change and become a better man. I will become bigger, better, wiser with time. But then again, at other times, I'm not so sure.

Can people change if they truly and really want to? Or are our best efforts a waste of our freaking time?

Well, if people take eons just to change that little but, can somebody please tell me how do we create that impetus or catalyst, to finally make that change?

I want to change... Really truly...